Hey Guys, I hate to waste precious blog time on dumb people and dumb things, but we have bidness to address.
Dear Jenn,
The internet isn’t as anonymous as you think. I am sure you know all about IP addresses, as leaving hateful snarky comments seems to be a hobby of yours. But did you know I have traced yours back a year and a half on my blog? And have been in touch with other bloggers who have traced them as well? Even when you try to sneak a nice comment in for whatever reason, I know those are you too. Also, sometimes when you leave so many fake emails you get confused and leave your real one. Which then links to your actual real life information. Like pictures, employer information. Another fact, most states, including but not limited to Illinois, have online bullying laws. And most cell carriers, like Verizon, take issues of harassment very seriously. Employers also tend to frown upon using work computers for such nonsense. If you don’t stop commenting here and contacting me, and the other bloggers I know about, I will have to release your real name and pictures and all of your hateful/bizarre/crazy comments. I am also not above taking legal action if you decide to make that necessary.
Because, here’s the deal. Do I really care that some crazy pants out there is hating on me? No, not really when some of the comments are about my “rainbow brite cluster*ck” cupcakes. I just don’t take that kind of thing super personally. And I also am lucky to have such a great community of readers who are so wonderful and so encouraging and I know not everyone out there has to like me. But this is beyond that. I hate that suddenly people think you can say and do whatever they want on the internet without consequence. I hate the general atmosphere of negativity that breeds. I am sure if your children were being bullied at school you would be horrified, but kids learn from their parents. The more hate you are exposed to, the more you become acclimated to it, and it doesn’t bother you so much. But it should. Criticism is fine, but you will never regret being kind.
So anyway, that is why I am not just going to go on a rampage and post your junk now, Jenn. Nor am I going to post the worst of your comments. Because I don’t want to be a part of the negativity, I just want it to stop. If you think I am bluffing, here are about 1/4 of the comments I have from you, with identifying info redacted. Next time it won’t be.
OK, well, I am glad we had this talk. Thanks.
Source: tumblr.com via Bailey on Pinterest
Again, sorry for the waste of time everyone, but it had to be done.
Great post. What a crazy troll. You and your blog are lovely.
Love it! You go girl!
You’re fantastic! That was awesome to read and so well written!
I luv Peppermint Bliss and it looks like many others do too! I’m old enough to be your mom and enjoy each one of your posts and stories about your house, family and precious Gracie!
Good for you for confronting this wack job!
It blows me away that someone like her, who is so clearly not in tune, would even take the time to comment. If she doesn’t like your “clusterf**” cupcakes, then why bother reading your blog!? Love that you called her out and you’re absolutely wonderful and it’s a good thing 99.9% of your readers are HUGE fans!
Good for you and your positive spirit! That wore me out just reading those terrible comments. I LOVE your blog- keep it up!
I’ve been a loyal follower of PB probably as long as Jenn. I used to comment much more but then I got lazy. This post is so deserving of major kudos for keeping it mature and classy. I guess now Jenn has to find a new hobby. Hopefully a productive one and isn’t seeking new bloggers to harass. Team Bliss!
I can’t believe that some one would take the time to read a blog and then comment in a hateful way. I love your blog and style, you make me want to be a happy person. Thanks for sharing all that you do!
Bailey, I have never commented on your blog until now, but I feel compelled to throw in my two cents… you are fabulous, honest and an encouragement to many. Forget the haters and keep doing what you do best–being yourself! XOXO, A Philly Fan!
You go girl for putting her on blast! It’s pathetic that she takes time out of her life to write such terrible things. Online bullying (and real life bullying) is lame and people just need to quit! Love your blog…inspirational and funny!
You’re a classy lady and I have loved your blog for a long time. Go you!!! Proud of Queen Bailey and her strength to call this crazzzzy out! Thanks for providing so many laughs!
I love your clusterfu** cupcakes and I wish I could squeeze some time in my day to cut bangs and make awesome cupcakes WITHOUT A CHILD. Good for you! I truly enjoy reading your blog, you are so funny, and make my day. This woman is clearly so low on herself that she needs to bash an awesome chick like yourself. Keep your head high, Bailey!
You conducted yourself,as always,with kindness and that inspires me! Thanks Bailey:)
You go girl! Fight fire with (classier) fire! I love this blog and your writing style. I look forward to the updates in my Google Reader. Cheers to you!
Bailey– Great post!! Please know that there are a ton of us out there that are huge fans of yours, who unfortunately never comment. This time I’m hoping to counteract the negative comments with a positive one.
Keep going. I’ve been with you for years, and admire your honesty, humor, and strength.
Stacey
Ha! What a loser!
So many people ignore comments like hers, it’s so nice to see someone speak up about online harassment! Your blog is so honest and entertaining, and you seem so fun and genuine and I admire you for that
Bailey,
I’ve been reading your blog for a little while. I’m not sure if I’ve ever commented before. I’m normally just a lurker. lol But this post! This. Post. Is. Awesome. You are a hero to so many bloggers out there who deal with this on a daily basis. I never thought I’d be proud of someone I never met (and idolize for their design taste!) but that is the only feeling I can describe when I read this. So thank you for being an example, and making one. You’re wonderful.
Wow am I behind on reading. I’ve been away from blogging since May and had everyone of your posts to still read. I can’t wait. What a cluster $^$% Ms. Jenn is and I love that you gave it to her Peppermint Bliss Style with your wonderful sense of humor. I saw delete her comments moving forward and don’t give her the satisfaction. Sounds like she was a jealous mean girl in high school. Keep on writing with your witty sense of humor!
Another Team Bliss member! I am just now catching up on some older posts-and CAN NOT believe that loser….So glad you traced her IP and “opened up a can” of good old fashioned “Polite but firm” Southern Belle on her…
I love your posts/your blogs and you just crack me up!!! Thanks for bringing imagination and happiness to so many of us!!!!
I just wanted to say what a classy lady I think you are. Good for you for standing up to such a horrible nasty person! I will continue reading and posting POSTIVE and NICE comments.
I too have never posted – but congratulations for saying enough is enough. The rule of looking someone in the eye applies to both buying condoms and commenting on a blog – if you can’t go into the pharmacist and look them in the eye and make the purchase than you shouldn’t do it. Likewise if you could not say what you were going to post in person – then you shouldn’t do it. Your blog brightens my day every post! (and your bathroom is fierce! oozes confidence!!!)
I HEART this post! You are fabulous!
Hi Bailey – I just stumbled upon your blog today and I think it is super cute and can’t wait to continue reading it. But back to the topic at hand, this is incredible. Major props to you for calling this loser out. You’re an inspiration…It’s nice to be occasionally reminded we don’t have to put up with negative individuals. Keep up the good work!
fantastic post! im a big fan from the uk! really wanted to start an interiors/fashion/baby blog myself because these are all my favourite interests and loves, and a nice way to track all the memories of my little man in his first year. but get put off by the trolls. i think id be too upset by a nasty comment, it is so unfortunate that there are nasty bullies like that out there!
Know I am a bit late to comment here, but couldn’t resist…wow, what a whack job that Jenn is. Glad you took her to task and let her know that you were on to her. Thanks for being inspiring, funny and talented…
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I recently discovered your blog and Iook forward to every post. I applaud you for handling this situation with grace and poise. Very classy — just like your designs.